View About Long List of Ex Lovers

  

Hola, but it's not Dora 😎 haha.

I've been looking at the feeds of my Instagram @crysant.michelle (just in case you want to stalk me  haha) and feeds of Line. There's something bothers me. Why people fall in love and move the status from friendship to romantic relationship and break up easily ?

I remember when I was in middle and senior school, my friends also did it. (Girl side) At first they met a boy, tried to get to know each other and a week later. BAM ! They became a boyfriend and girlfriend. And then not so long after that (like few months later), they fought, the girl cried, and they broke up. Then the girl met a new boy and everythings repeat.

I wonder why so many people proud of having a long list of ex lovers. For me it's like showing how many times you do the remedial. It shows, how many times you failed. And what's so good on it ?

Ah, maybe it also show how many people attracted to them. Showing how attractive they are. But, I bet Michael Jackson didn't marry all of his fans to show how attractive he is, how popular he is. But  maybe, Michael Jackson is not Taylor Swift (no hate for her though). Even Tay mentioned it in her Blank Space song that having a long list of ex lovers make you look insane.

So, in my opinion, from my point of view, life is not only about love and relationship. If you break up, then don't be so hurry to find a new one. Make yourself qualified enough then someone with quality will show up. But if you prefer quantity to quality, well.. the choice is yours. It's just a view from someone who wish her first boyfriend is also her last. One for ever. Forever one. The first and the last.

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