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Ujian Hidup. Buat apa?

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Dulu, sewaktu saya kecil saya ingat pernah diajarkan di sekolah Minggu, "Namanya hidup juga pasti ada ujiannya. Ya namanya ujian itu biar naik kelas. Jadi, misalnya kalian kelas 4 nih sekarang, tapi kalo ujian hidupnya ga berhasil-hasil ya kalian ga naik-naik level. Kalo main game juga gitu kan, awalnya gampang makin lama makin susah. Sama, hidup juga gitu." Jadi, sejak saat itu sampai... yah .. belum lama ini tiap ada kesulitan saya pasti akan coba atasi sendiri. Kan mau naik level di kehidupan soalnya. Begitu pikir saya. Tapi beberapa bulan terakhir ini banyak sekali ujian hidup yang terjadi membuat saya berpikir ulang. Kenapa harus ada ujian hidup? Kenapa saya harus melewatinya? Memangnya kalo saya terus lulus dalam ujian hidup saya bakal dapat apa? Apa "kasta" saya juga akan lebih tinggi di surga sana? Sepertinya tidak juga. Apa jadi lebih banyak orang yang menyukai saya? Saya yakin tidak juga. Lalu buat apa? Buat apa saya berlelah-lelah menempuh seg...

Harsh word. Why?

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I live life, and communicate using words. However, there is a trend which I don't understand. It makes me wonder and wonder. Why? As you read the title you must know what. Yup. Trend of using harsh words. I don't understand why using harsh words is very popular. You're not cool unless you use harsh words that's what people think. F*ck, b*tch, are the most common words to use not to mention there are a bunch of other words. More and more people use those harsh words, thinking they're looking very cool when they blurt it. Then, little children looking, hearing and imitating what the older people do. Thinking the same. "Oh, I'm very cool using those words" is might be on what those little kid mind. And I'm curious. What is the purpose of using harsh words? Is it necessary to use that? As above mentioned, maybe it because people want to look cool.. or it actually supposed to hurt other people.. it can also be to show disrespect towards the o...

Review L'Oreal Pure Clay Mask

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  Hi, long time not posting! I'll give an honest review about L'Oreal Pure Clay Mask. I have 3 variants of this mask and I've used it for over 1 month. My skin is normal to oily and honestly I don't have any problem with my skin, well sometimes acne and it's hormonal, can't help with that. So, I'll start. 1. L' Oreal Pure Clay Mask Illuminating From the box, this mask supposed to renewing, smoothening, and give a skin radiance. Immediate result : skin is cleansed and brightened, instantly renewed Day after day : skin revealed is soft and radiant The texture is a bit solid like clay (o yeah very helpful), I mean also like butter, you know when you take it and spread it to your bread? Therefore I use spatula to take it and spread it to my face. It was made with British Kaolin Clay and Lemongrass Extract. To be honest, this is the mask I least prefer than the other two. The smell of lemongrass in Bahasa "sereh" even though...

About Marriage and Life Partner

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(note that the picture has no relation with the post but I just find it funny) Usually when I just looking around, random questions poped out in my mind. And this time is about the next step of my life. I guess I'm totally a planer, make plans about anything including life, that's why the destination planning that I took is just suit me *thank God*. Some people live life just by let it flows, but I live my life by chasing my dream, object that I want, my goals. Aaaaand, that's why we need to think a plan. So, after finished my bachelor degree, and already got a job, the next step is ... whether you get marriage or get your master degree, right ? And I think that mariage is more complicated, sometimes I think about not getting it, I need to discuss it with someone. Talking about marriage, I found in news that many of it ends. But I don't want my marriage ends with divorce. And I'm scared to be trapped in a lifetime relationship with a wrong person. Be...

Types of Beauty

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Guess what am I doing beside writing this post ? Edit and re-write my minithesis/essay (skripsi). So, I need to refresh my mind a bit by writing on my blog. I know all of you girls have already heard the quotes saying you're beautiful and so on. But, I believe that you don't really take it seriously. From my point of view, there are many types of beauty and because you are the image of God. Is God ugly ? You answer it :) Genesis 1:27 " God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them." So, how many types of beauty are there ? If we divide it into two main categories then there are two types, inside and outside. And from those two main categories there will be other smaller parts of it. Inside , is the type of beauty which can not be seen by eyes. It's not a physical beauty, but it remains for eternity. And there are many types of inside beauty, for example - Beauty by keep being grat...

Dos and Don'ts When You're Galau

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Well.. Hi ! So, you might be Galau*  right now. Hmm.. before you read this not-so-informative-article-but-lets-just-try-it-anyway I want to warn you that it might be not 100% works for you *evil laugh* Dos : 1. Listening to cheerful or upbeats songs. I recommend Mocca  - Happy, Muse - Can't Take My Eyes of You (this one is not so recommended but this one is my all-the-time-all-situation-song), all of those upbeats songs like Twerk It Like Miley, K-Pop boy/girlband songs mostly are upbeats 2. Watch movies. Because you are sad, it's better to watch comedy. Recommendation ? Flipped. Umm.. does drama also counted ? Then it's My Love From the Star, Legend of Blue Sea, Cheese in the Trap. 3. Do your hobby. If you like writing then do write, if you like reading then do read. Just do things that make you happy. 4. Go outside. Meet new people, talk, laugh, try new restaurant, buy clothes, anything. You need a fresh air, far from those mello memories. 5. Exer...

View About Long List of Ex Lovers

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   Hola, but it's not Dora 😎 haha. I've been looking at the feeds of my Instagram @crysant.michelle (just in case you want to stalk me  haha) and feeds of Line. There's something bothers me. Why people fall in love and move the status from friendship to romantic relationship and break up easily ? I remember when I was in middle and senior school, my friends also did it. (Girl side) At first they met a boy, tried to get to know each other and a week later. BAM ! They became a boyfriend and girlfriend. And then not so long after that (like few months later), they fought, the girl cried, and they broke up. Then the girl met a new boy and everythings repeat. I wonder why so many people proud of having a long list of ex lovers. For me it's like showing how many times you do the remedial. It shows, how many times you failed. And what's so good on it ? Ah, maybe it also show how many people attracted to them. Showing how attractive they are. But, I bet Mic...